Jann Arden wrote about spending time with her parents. I commented: I'm living with my Mom. Sometimes I can't laugh and sometimes when I do laugh it hurts her feelings because I am laughing at her even when she is laughing about it too. Mom said the worst thing is people thinking you are feeble or forgetting things when you aren't. Assuming you are "just old" when you are still just forgetting the same stuff you would have forgotten at any age. Watching your parent(s) get old is creepy because you know it will be you in another 20 years. But, as Mom also pointed out one day, I will be alone when I'm old. "Who will help you?", she asked me. I don't know and that is the worst part of all of it for me.