Gain Self Confidence

Article from: Womens Deals

7 Ways To Gain More Self-Confidence: Becoming More Confident

1. Learn to give and take graciously because true confidence cannot exist in a vacuum. Though it might not feel natural at first, the most confident people are those who are able to find a balance between helping others and asking for help when they themselves need it.

2. Arm yourself with the facts. When you feel unsure, confidence can melt away. Always being prepared with the correct information can help you retain your inner strength in an unnerving situation.

3. You cannot rethink the past, but you can reinvent yourself. Broadening your horizons with new and exciting experiences will help you to feel accomplished and will add unique modes of expression to your daily life.

4. It is easy to forget how many difficult obstacles you’ve overcome when you’re faced with the obstacles ahead. Keeping a success journal, wherein you list accomplishments big and small, as well as future goals, can inspire confidence when you’re feeling overwhelmed or under-motivated.

5. Bolstering the confidence of others and making new friends are powerful confidence builders. Help others to feel good by approaching them, asking questions, being friendly and complimenting them.

6. In situations that create feelings of uncertainty (which can quickly undermine self-confidence), imagine that the difficulties involved are ones you’ve faced before. Feeling self-assured about a few things can help you perceive yourself as confident about most things.

7. Each morning, give your self-confidence a jump-start with a positive affirmation. Think of five the things you have accomplished. Look closely at yourself in the mirror and remind yourself that you accept, support, and trust yourself, even when the unexpected happens.

Men in a Sexual Rut

I think men are in a rut when it comes to sex. Once it touches their mind they can not see or think past it. I have noticed that online almost all of them are in sex mode. As if there is no need to really get to know someone cause they are only here to hook up for sex. That’s what the internet is right, a big bar scene? Yet, so many of them say they are tired of the bar scene.

Once you speak of sex or sexual things to a man he no longer has any real conversation, no real thoughts of who you are. You become a possible sex partner.

Sure there will be those who boo me. Who insist I am wrong about them, their significant other their brother, husband, Dad, penis carrier in general. But, from my experience… men can not think beyond sex once the subject has been introduced. They have a one cock mind.

I would enjoy meeting a guy who can prove this wrong, possibly a guy who isn’t a Virgo however. They do seem to be odd hermit like types with very strict codes of right and wrong and kind of stuck in their ways. I have given up on Virgo men, though I was friends with one once.

My Friends are 85.19% Normal


Popular interests among thatgrrlca’s friends
1. reading (8) 11. cooking (4)
2. music (7) 12. sensuality (4)
3. books (7) 13. satire (4)
4. photography (6) 14. art (4)
5. writing (6) 15. lipstick feminists (3)
6. sex (5) 16. open-mindedness (3)
7. coffee (5) 17. philosophy (3)
8. dancing (5) 18. seduction (3)
9. erotica (5) 19. film noir (3)
10. movies (4) 20. classic film (3)
Interests gestalt
My most interesting friend is gazehound who has 18 of these interests,
followed by agingyoungrebel (18), elementalmuse (10) and cloverbee (8).
Normality Index
My friends are 85.19% normal.
Analyze me !
Popular interests created by _imran_


How To Tell if He Likes You

From the OK Cupid site.

He might start talking loudly in your presence or start treating you like one of the guys. (Yes, this is a weird way to show he likes you, but it’s one of the strongest signals!)
His friends are paying a lot of attention to you when he isn’t around.
He tries to get your attention.
He looks into your eyes, and you’re attractive.
You look into his eyes, and his pupils get bigger if he likes you. He couldn’t control it.
His phone rings and it’s a wrong number. Then he remembers things you said before and brings them up again as conversation (asking questions about something you mentioned in the past.)
When you smile at him, he smiles back, and then blinks.
You call him at work and say: ‘Hello handsome! Are you free tonight?’ He uses his phone voice.
His toes are turned toward you when you talk to him. If they are, then you could be the one for him forever. Everyone naturally tends to point their feet at people who interest them.
His hips and upper body in the same direction as his feet?shows he’s quite interested in you.
Somewhere in realm a unicorn has given birth to a great crystal.

SHY GUYS?these are tough to crack sometimes…
He’ll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he’s pissed himself.
He may do something physical?like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair and quietly piss…(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He talks to everybody else?but when you’re around he turns silent, or chokes up and pisses.
He may ask a friend of yours about you?he’ll say it’s just for ‘friend of mine that wants to know about you.’ Then…
He tells you that you smell nice.
Remember, he might act weird around you or seem very nervous”

OK Cupid Site Personality Type Test

Laura64, you are…

The Sonnet
Deliberate Gentle Love Dreamer (DGLDf)

Romantic, hopeful, and composed. You are the Sonnet. Get it? Composed?

Sonnets want Love and have high ideals about it. They’re conscientious people, caring & careful. You yourself have deep convictions, and you devote a lot of thought to romance and what it should be. This will frighten away most potential mates, but that’s okay, because you’re very choosy with your affections anyway. You’d absolutely refuse to date someone dumber than you, for instance.

Lovers who share your idealized perspective, or who are at least willing to totally throw themselves into a relationship, will be very, very happy with you. And you with them. You’re already selfless and compassionate, and with the right partner, there’s no doubt you can be sensual, even adventurously so.

You probably have lots of female friends, and they have a special soft spot for you. Babies do, too, at the tippy-top of their baby skulls.

ALWAYS AVOID: The 5-Night Stand, The False Messiah, The Hornivore, The Last Man on Earth

CONSIDER: The Loverboy

"The challenge is to say almost nothing, at least very little."

Sagittarius Horoscope for 9/27 – 10/3

This week’s scenario is highlighted by some sharp words that could get your week off to a rough start.

You’re usually the last one to argue, but you may need to stand up for yourself.

Travel may be a bit more complicated than usual.

Short tempers only make the trip longer.

You may, in fact, really be fighting about an old issue.

Take a good look and see if that’s not the case.

Messages come from near and far.

Your inbox will likely be filled with letters to answer, calls to make, and faxes and e-mails that require response.

If you get that brain of yours in high gear, you’ll be able to make all the deadlines.

It’s not that you’re so organized, but rather that your mind can move so quickly when you’re in the flow.

Your intelligence should shine brightly.

Show the world what you can do.

You tend to be straightforward with people.

You may need to use a more indirect approach to sharing and communication.

The challenge is to say almost nothing, at least very little.

You can chitchat without complications, but you should give out important personal and business information only when necessary. Gossip can be very destructive here. Give ’em your best smile, but leave them guessing about the details.

This horoscope provided by Astrology Source. Learn about your inner self, friends, and lovers.

Sagittarius – Your Love Profile

Your positive traits:
Your playful nature brings out the happy inner-child in dates
You’re willing to take risks in love… and reap the rewards
You’ve got a killer sense of humor that gets talking with any hottie you meet

Your negative traits:
Sometimes your sarcasm comes off as biting and abrasive
You can be brutally honest, tactless, and truthful even when it hurts
You’re such a free spirit that you find it hard to commit to one person

Your ideal partner:
Someone high energy who will pick up and out with you whenever
Is creative and fun – thinking of new adventures for the two of you
Is bold… and not afraid to tell you “I love you” early on

Your dating style:
Unpredictable. You never know how the night is going to end up.

Your seduction style:
Daring. You’re always pushing to try something new in the bedroom.
Full of imagination. You’ve always got a new fantasy you’re dying to try.
Spritually driven. Sex for you can be an other-worldy act.

Tips for the future:
Realize that while freedom is great – sometimes a stable relationship is better.
It’s not all about you. Focus on your parnter’s needs every once and a while.
Make up your mind about your parnter, and stick to it. Your fickle will ruin things otherwise.

Best place to meet someone online:

Where there’s tons of flirting and fun to suite your inner extrovert

Best color to attract mate: Purple

Best day for a date: Thursday