The Red Well with Warnings of Ghosts and Witches

Somewhere in Scotland. What an interesting little place. Likely the tales of ghosts and witches were based on suspicion/ fear and just trying to keep people from getting hurt in there. Now it’s locked. What a sad, and yet sensible, ending.

There must have been (or still are) other places like this. Is it even a well? Seems an odd structure to use for water, wouldn’t it get stagnant without some sunlight and air flow?

Below is the Red Well, said to date from Roman times, also said to be haunted by an old lady ghost and to be aligned for sunrise sunbeams on the summer solstice. I lived in Whitehills for a short time as a child and remember the beehive shaped building being called ‘the witch’s hoosie’ and kids shutting each other in there for ‘fun’. It’s now locked.

Source: going coastal – Ailish Sinclair

Nice Kitchen in a Tower

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Grade I listed Hadlow Tower near Tonbridge, Kent, was commissioned by wealthy businessman Walter May in 1838 because he suspected his wife was sleeping with a local farmer.

Source: Kent’s Hadlow Tower where 19th-century businessman locked up cheating wife goes on sale | Daily Mail Online

The tower and the story were interesting to read about. But, it was this space – the kitchen furniture and set up which I especially like.

FemDom Halloween Costumes Needed

I found these costumes for a BDSM couple but, the order is reversed. She should be the key holder and he is the one locked up. Of course, the ball and chain could work either way. But, not everyone would understand she has him in chains versus him being chained to her. It could help if he were as scantily clad as she is. ballchain

lockkeySource: Adult Lock and Key Couples Costume – Halloween Costumes

Shoe Locks as Bondage

This doesn’t interest me so much as a sissy thing, but… Imagine your boy waking up one morning to find himself locked into a pair of very high heels. What a surprise. Not only shoe bondage but he won’t be walking very well or fast either. Doubly in bondage.

shoelocksA sexy and unique pair of wide ankle cuffs which have a satin pleated frill at the top of the cuff, they feature a large D-ring on one end of the strap, and slits on the other which fits onto the D-ring and then secured with a padlock (not supplied).

An adjustable buckle strap goes under the heel then secured so there really is no escape!

The ankle cuffs are 3″ wide, and will fit all typical ankle sizes (7″ to 10″ around).

Source: SissyStore

Keeping him Caged

Note: This is an illustration, a fantasy not something actually done. Sure it’s fun to think about doing things like this. But, they work better as a fantasy, or a teasing threat. Don’t leave someone standing, locked up, over night without being awake yourself to check on them.

Slave husband spends all night locked in a genital stock forced to stand next to wife’s bed while she sleeps.

Source: He Suffers While Mistress Sleeps – Femdomonomy

It Should Not be Lonely at the Top

My reply to a woman who asked for help because she was feeling she could not reveal her “weak” feelings and a need to explore her own submission to her submissive little one in  Mommy/ little relationship.

If your relationship is a good one you should be able to evolve it to suit you. Why not show a “weak” side? Who says it is weak to want affection?

If you have a relationship with your little it should not be just one sided, change things and make sure you are getting what you need from the relationship as well. If it is just a play relationship where you are stuck in a role then it is not enough for you.

Consider finding someone who can be more and have a two way relationship. I find it hard to have that with Dom and sub because people do think it should be all one sided. That is what they show in porn – it is not the reality. Or, it should not be the reality.

A Dom or Mommy or whatever title or role is not someone who stoically gives all and endures. That is a very lonely and one sided thing. It is also boring at some point because you just lose interest in maintaining something which doesn’t give you back what you need. The relationship needs to replenish the Dom in some way. If it is real versus that online play stuff people do. I did online play and it left me feeling used and actually bored because there was nothing in it for me. The whole thing became a routine I performed.

Think about what you need and talk to your sub about it. If she actually does care about you she should be happy to give you what you need. If not, then you need to find someone who cares about your needs as much as she does her own.

If you are locked into a role how can you ever really be yourself? If you can’t be yourself, and if you can’t get what you need to keep the relationship going, then what is the point of keeping it at all? Eventually it will die because you don’t have your full self invested in it and you are not getting enough back from it.

Also, why would your partner not want to be a real partner? Give them a chance to be more and give yourself a chance to have more.