Rude Boy on Fetlife

I had a note today in my Fetlife profile which read like a personal ad. A twenty-something male wants a woman to piss on him, play scat, etc. Now, not only does my profile show that I am with someone (considering TheWoodWorker) but I do not mention at all, in any way, an interest in this kind of play. I am not in any groups with this topic either. In my profile I speak out against men who think of Dommes as women who exist to serve their fetishes. I think writing me a note like this is just plain rude and I was (still am) offended. I blocked the little turd.

Facebook | FaceBook Women Gamers SocialPlus

Facebook | FaceBook Women Gamers SocialPlus: “Description:
A group for all women who play games on FaceBook. Most of the games require you to invite others to your guild/ crew/ alliance. I’d rather invite other women players. So here is the group for women who like to do the same.

Post to the forum with the games you usually play on FaceBook and others can make you a friend and join your groups. If you invite someone from this group make sure you add a note that you came from this group and include which games you play.”

Technosexuality – The Robot/ Tech Fetish

I know there is a large group who like sex with dolls, the doll fetish. That isn’t me. I am not interested in an inanimate and unfeeling, unresponsive object. There are various interesting things about sex with an android/ robot.

First, an android can be fully male and functional and yet still be a real virgin, not even know how to perform sex and it (the android) may not even have thought about sexual relationships. So there is the whole thing about corrupting something that isn’t a child and does not have that innocence and yet it would not be the same as playing with an experienced adult. I’m not sure if this really appeals to me or not. I think I would rather have a partner who knows what is coming versus one who doesn’t have a clue and thus can’t begin to get excited until after the event. All that build up and suspense would be missing.

Second, on the other side, an android could be created for sex, for serving women. This side of the android is very erotic. It would have endless stamina, all kinds of knowledge and it is very unlikely to say no or be afraid or intimidated to try anything at all. However, would it be convincing as a sub? If it has less at stake than a real human male could it really put the same energy into submitting, being teased and tormented. Would chastity, for instance, have no real meaning for an android? Does it truly desire to be sensual or is it just one more thing on it’s to-do list?

The android who serves it’s master is erotic in spite of it’s possible disinterest. It would obey. It would serve. There would be no need to feel bad about getting what you want out of the encounter. You could be very selfish and have no real concern for the enjoyment the android may or may not be having. At the end it could even clean itself up and leave you to do whatever you want.

This is another great thing about the android. It is easy to put away when you are done with it. Stuff it in the back of your closet, roll it under the bed or just leave it to stand out of the way in a corner somewhere, it makes no difference to the android. You can even unplug it, use the off switch to save power. If you get the deluxe model you can even have it stay on and perform in other ways: wash floors, drive you to work, answer all your emails, etc.

Wikipedia: Robot Fetishism – (also ASFR or technosexuality[1]) is a fetishistic attraction to humanoid or non-humanoid robots; also to people acting like robots or people dressed in robot costumes.


Regina Lynn at Wired writes: 10 Reasons I’d Rather Marry a Robot.

10 Things you Always Wanted to Know About Robot Sex but were Afraid to Ask – article by Kal Cobalt.

For Fictional Bondage Only: Objectification

Bondage in reality has to follow rules and we have to think of safety issues. You don’t want to injure your little man, just torment him.

But, in fiction, bondage can go further, deeper and be far more evil. I remember a movie I watched (just the beginning) where the actor (possibly Clint Eastwood) was a soldier on the run from the other soldiers. Somehow he is taken in by a school for girls or some other type of women’s group. They have their own building, that much was clear, and it is somewhere isolated. I forget if they find him and bring him in or if he finds them and asks/ begs/ bargains/ threatens his way in. However, it turns out that the women tie him down while he is unconscious and cut off his leg (some essential body part)/ It may have been due to a real injury or they were making sure he couldn’t escape or cause them any harm. Either way he was now under their mercy and tender care. I don’t remember more than that.

There is something erotic about bondage done to that extent. I am not looking for that in reality. But, in fiction, you can let your fetishy impulses run amok. No one real gets hurt. Though anyone finding out about your erotic fetish may never feel quite the same about you again.

Still, the appeal to me is not about cutting off body parts but the complete control and the extreme bondage.

I don’t know how the movie ends, if they end up killing him (think The Collector) or if he escapes. I just like running scenes in my mind where the little man is in dire peril and can’t escape.

Even today I was looking at the site that sells Real Dolls and came upon a picture of a real doll male torso. Of course it’s just plastic (or some type of stuff like that) so there is no blood or gore or real violence. It is just meant to be a toy for those who don’t want to deal with the whole body, arms and legs and the head just weight more and take up space. Right? This led me to the thought that arms and legs tend to get in the way. Even when you are writing a sex scene the arms and legs have to be kept track of and other than being used now and then, they do tend to get in the way.

How would it be to have just a male torso to play with? You’d have to keep the head of course. If only so you could listen to him protest, scream and beg for mercy. But, assuming you (or some of your friends) are able to perform the type of surgery that removes the arms and legs and then cauterizes the appendages so there isn’t too much blood loss or other trauma. Once he heals and gets over some of the mental adjustment, you would have the ultimate bondage for that little man. He literally isn’t going anywhere.

I know it’s gross, sick and way over the scope of reality. I’d never want to do it in reality at all. It would be way too gross. It only has appeal in fiction, where I can focus on the bondage and the torment and the true evil and wickedness in the scenario.

Dollification – the process of evolving, mentally and physically, into a “living doll.” Individuals who desire this process-as well as those who are in the midst of the process or have already achieved an end result-may be described as “dolls,” and most desire as well to be owned. The parties involved in dollification are referred to as “Owner”and “doll”; this is comparable to a Master/slave or Dom/sub relationship.

The Doll Forum

Flickr: Male Doll Lovers

Wikipedia: Agalmatophilia – is a paraphilia concerned with the sexual attraction to a statue, doll, mannequin or other similar figurative object. The attraction may include the desire for actual sexual contact with the objects, a fantasy of having sexual (or non-sexual) encounters with the animate or inanimate instances of the preferred objects, the act of watching encounters between the objects themselves, or sexual pleasure gained from thoughts of being transformed or transforming another into the preferred object.

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