A sweet girl who likes to do wicked things. A wallflower in disguise.
I'm not a professional Domme and don't want to become one, though I admit the money is tempting. I'm a writer. I write fiction and non-fiction. Sometimes I like to draw too.
I think the biggest challenge in having a FemDom relationship is keeping it that way. If she isn't having fun and loving what she is doing most likely the focus has gone back to his needs/ wants instead of theirs (as a couple).
Men want to meet Dommes, real women who enjoy Dominating men. However, men don’t seem to understand that we are real women, people too. We have interests, thoughts and lives that have nothing to do with tying men up, teasing and tormenting them. (As much fun as all that is).
I’m writing this blog for myself mainly. I used to write a weekly column called Bait & Switch for Adult BackWash. (BackWash is closed now). I would write about sex, kinky stuff, fetishes, online dating, romance, passion and sensuality. I also wrote about my views as a woman who likes treating men as my own personal sex toy.
Don’t think that I’m some experienced professional, cause I’m not. I never have been. I’m a woman you could meet any day and pass without suspecting I was anything but someone’s sister/ daughter/ aunt. Just think about that… how do you know you didn’t see me today? I’m a nice girl, a romantic. I tend to be quiet and polite and I’m thinking a lot behind my glasses. I’m the woman your Mother would like you to bring home.
Isn’t that ironic?
I like teasing men while they can’t do much about it. I like the idea of keeping a man in a cage or tied hand and foot to the frame of the doorway, or told to wear a bib in the restaurant. I like having a man who does it all, not because he has to, not because he could not escape the bondage or just say No, but because he wants to. I like a man who is strong, independent, intelligent and submissive (but only to me). I’m not into sharing quite that much.
I like a home made brand of D/s. Where instead of spending money on toys from a catalogue I am creative and use my own ideas and imagination. I really like having something ordinary become extraordinary fun in a kinky way. It gives you a whole new outlook each time you open a drawer in the kitchen, especially that junk drawer with all the odds and ends.
I also like writing fiction, Femdom fiction. I’ve won 2nd place in an erotica writing contest run (in part) by Gloria Brame but that was several years ago. Still, it was quite an honour to me at the time. I have some of my erotic fiction online, even though BackWash is not available, I had another source previous to my work there. I've been published in The Dominant's View at least twice. (Looks like that's gone now too).
Anyway, this is as much information as I feel like giving away right now.