Why do men expect/ want loyalty from sex workers?
I had heard of the idea at some point but it didn’t catch my attention until last week. I was having a talk with Gracie (from Sex Kitten) about another site and problems with phone sex men. Gracie likes phone sex men. But, Gracie is a professional and liking them is something she chooses to do. It’s also something she gets paid for.
What loyalty does a paid sex worker owe to a client?
How long should any loyalty last?
Should she only be loyal to the clients who pay extra for it?
Of course, there is the question of which man she should be loyal to first? What if the sex worker goes home and becomes a wife, friend with benefits or girlfriend and considers her loyalty to her clients null and void?
Does any of this occur to the men who hire sex workers, including phone sex and anyone else they pay for sexual favours?
To me it seems a self centred thing. But, worse it is likely to leave these men disillusioned.
In short, if you pay for sex you get what you pay for and not more than that. You don’t pay by the minute and get a whole lot of loyalty.
Addendum: Read Gracie’s reply to this post.