Found on Craigslist:
Are you shy / inexperienced / have low self-esteem? – 27
Looking for a girl that is shy, inexperienced, and has low self-esteem.
I will help you build your confidence, and get experience, one step at a time.
We’ll take it step-by-step, at the pace that makes YOU feel comfortable.At first, we’ll just work on making you feel comfortable around a guy (me), and in public. Then once you are ready, we’ll move onto building sexual experience. I’ll let you explore my body, I’ll let you ask me questions, and I’ll let you play with me. At first you can stay dressed, and you can see me naked. Then once you’ll be fine with it, I’ll undress you slowly, so that you will get comfortable with the idea of a guy undressing you. You will probably shake and tremble at first, but then you’ll slowly get to love the feeling! I’ll kiss your body all over, so that your tensions will ease, and you will start feeling warm and aroused inside. And we will go as far as you are prepared to go!
I’ll show you how valuable you really are!
In the end you will be totally confident about yourself, and will have gained enough experience so that you will not be afraid of guys, and what people will think or say about you!I am looking for one girl only, so please do describe yourself in your response, so that I could pick the one who will benefit the most!!!
If you include a picture, that’s even better. However, since you are shy, and you have low self-esteem, you will probably not be comfortable with including your picture.
About me: I’m 27, white, handsome, athletic, understanding, passionate, educated, funny, independent, and intelligent. I’m clean, I maintain a good hygene, I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, and I don’t do drugs.
You will NOT be disappointed! Making you feel comfortable, and helping you learn appreciate yourself is my goal!
Likely not a good idea to reply to this ad. I lost my virginity with a guy I new a long time and later married. I know that sounds old fashioned, maybe too old fashioned and spinsterly. But, it was a special event in my life, and it is still one of my best memories from the time I had with my exhusband. A girl shouldn’t give that away to someone who just wants to hunt cherries. What happens to her once he has popped it? Maybe he just cut and pastes the same ad back on Craigslist and waits for a fish to bite.
The guy is probably in his 50’s, balding and out of shape. What a perv..
A sub-title should read, “and I’ll teach you what a lying, arrogant, pompous ass is too.”
It may surprise you, but I really don’t have a problem with the ad.
Not totally surprised Skye. But, I didn’t expect you’d be okay with it either. Would you have an answered that ad, gone to meet him? I think a woman who already feels low esteem needs to find someone who genuinely cares about her, not someone who sees her as someone to have sex with. There should be more, it does make a huge difference. All the sex you can stand won’t really make you feel more comfortable about your body if the person you’re with doesn’t really know who you are, inside, not just on the outside. It may not work that way for men. It seems they really don’t care (most of them anyway). Thank whatever your god of choice is for a few guys I know like HappyandBlue or I’d be really depressed about the chances of finding any guy I’d want to spend time with.
My thought was: Is he a pimp?
Arrgh, there is so much crap out there.